Ladies, we all know what a delicate subject intercourse (or more commonly known by it’s street name, sex) tends to be. Today we’re going to discuss the ways in which you can send your lover spiraling through space and time with some out-of-this-world tips and tricks!
Whether you find yourself rockin’ steady in a totally cool bunk bed, or romping on the sandy dunes of Tatooine, it’s important to make sure you’re comfortable, and can build up adequate sexual tension to keep your partner trembling with….anticipation.
Whether you’re mastering opening a door with the Sonic Screwdriver, bringing your pretty face to his axe, or maybe even tempting Pandora’s Box open….making sure you spend time familiarizing yourself with your partner’s personal armory will offer both gently rousing stimulation and give you a clear vision of how cast the die in both your favor during the heat of the moment.
We all know that dressing up is truly a year-round activity and not just to be saved for one measly night every 12 months. Instead, find your lover’s nerdy fix and bring their favorite characters to life. Even if you don’t think you can rock a Princess Leia slave bikini or a Catwoman pleather body suit, there are plenty of ways to reference those looks in a more comfortable way that you can rock confidently and use to bring these women of fantasy to life.
In this game, YOU call the shots. Speak up if something makes you uncomfortable, sex is just as much about your own pleasure as theirs. The bedroom isn’t always the place to be the hero. If you aren’t floating in the stars or feeling the zing, maybe it’s time to try something else. A truly caring partner will understand if you need to change things up or even stop. If they aren’t willing to, that’s a pretty good indicator your gut feeling was right and maybe it’s time to call it off.
Looking to spice things up and got an epic voyage mapped out too big for just the two of you? Sounds like you need the help of an adventurous companion. It’s important to make sure it’s someone you’re both comfortable with and trust. Intimacy is a delicate thing, and it’s important that anyone you bring onto the ship meets the protocol for all aboard. Remember, jealousy is an ugly creature. While it’s understandable to express concerns about involving another person, just keep in mind that your partner chose YOU. And continues to choose you, if they didn’t they’d have disapparated by now. Plus, it’s okay to admit you really want to be cuddled on both sides for once.
*Disclaimer: these are not by any means scientifically proven methods. These may be some of the silliest things you’ve ever heard, and some of these may just wind you up in the biggest ball of wibbly wobbly timey wimey sexual ecstasy. Your fate is in your hands! (Or your partners!) Go try something new!
BONUS TIP! Keep a nifty, nerdy t-shirt around, (double points for really obscure references and crossovers) to throw on the next morning. Girls pulling the nothing-but-a-t-shirt look is always adorable, but frost that with a conversation starter, such as your favorite Firefly or Princess Bride t-shirt and you’ll have him doing exactly as you wish, for a shot at another round with you.
By:Venus A la Mode